tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8275654070127966906.post4553270540861628373..comments2024-02-14T13:05:33.040+04:00Comments on Suad Alhalwachi's Blogs: Men of the UAEsuad alhalwachihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00540787660680400701noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8275654070127966906.post-33715731700377495492011-05-29T20:45:58.352+04:002011-05-29T20:45:58.352+04:00Suaad as usual one great subject yet again and gre...Suaad as usual one great subject yet again and great comments that makes the person moves his brain around to think and find answers and or information to link it with the subject.<br /><br />I dont mean to sound not positive here, but about the men and not sharing in chores in or around the house is because we women and mothers and others around them while growing up have thought them that if they dont do anything or help in the house that we will do it any ways for them. It is all about what mothers/fathers teach them and what they can afford in their adult life…<br />We dont give them the chance to take that responsibility we do it for them or cover up for them or teach them that our money can buy that help from others (maids).<br /><br />If the men care about the end of the month bill payment alone they will start caring and shutting the lights after they leave the room. <br />If we dont do that, I dont think the men care to pay a large bill or live in a bad smelly house or see their house one big trashcan, if they don’t care then great their wish came true….otherwise they will be forced to take action and care about the light, the trash, and all the other issues…<br />If you say, well the maids will do that for them, and then I say well they are paid to do all those chores and these men can afford it but not all men can afford that.<br /><br />On last note, if you see men that work at home and wash their dishes and clothes and iron and cook and take the trash and all that only means you will defiantly see a man that does not have a stay home wife or worker (that made him for sure know that she will do all that needed and pick up after him even if she works just like him) or a maid that his money can buy, a new socks every time one tiers….<br />My dad showed us that even he had such a prominent government position when he comes home every day he helps mom in the house chores and let us all boys and girls help too that is why my brothers grew up now to know that helping in the house chores with their wives is a normal thing to do.<br /><br />So mothers and fathers, do lead by example and teach your sons that they should love and care about the house they live in with everyone in it and to share caring about the health of all that is in it by sharing with all chores and they can do to keep it clean and safe with their mothers/sisters/maids…shoulahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18084419908147649743noreply@blogger.com