Friday, 14 November 2014

Why do the good stuff that we must eat tastes horrible?

Why do the good stuff that we must eat tastes horrible? I know, I did put this as the title, why am I repeating it here, because its true.  Every damn good thing for us tastes like medicine! olive oil, tastes bad, veggies, taste worse, bitter lemon, tastes horrible, coconut oil, tastes yucky, dark chocolate? tastes dark! spinach! ok, that doesn't taste as bad but you must acquire the taste first. Olives? lousy? celery? again, not that good, parsley and corriander? my my, so bitter and bad. 

Why is it like that, we love cakes, deserts, chocolates (but not the dark ones) anything sweet, including sugar, staying up late at night, watching too much television, we cannot have enough of all of these things, but tell us to go for a walk, and after ten minutes we wish to be back in our comfort zone, just curling up in our very comfortable chair and watching that screen.  We go to the movies and what do we have? popcorn, pepsi and maltesers, we go for a picnic, and we have donuts, cakes, cookies and fizzy dirnks, have you seen anyone taking cut veggiess in a picnic? I guess not.  Too difficult, and hard to stay fresh we would say.  Our body is telling us to eat badly as I am not immortal, and I want to die quickly, feed me with those bad stuff that tastes like heaven as I want to go to heaven quicker than those that climb mountains, exercise and eat healthy, those are going to hell, and will rot. 

What brought this about? I am sure you are wondering about this?.  I read few weeks ago that coconut oil is good for us as it lubricates the brain and protects us from Alzheimer http://www.alzheimers.net/2013-05-29/coconut-oil-for-alzheimers/  and because my dad died of this illness, and being so close to my dad, I think I may get it too, so when I read the medical research about this magical treatment, and that is not chemical and not harmful (apart from its horiible taste) I started to fry my eggs with it.  Then I thought that having eggs may make my Collestrol level jump to the roof, so I started to add it to my porridge in the morning.  I noticied that when the porridge is hot I do not feel the taste of the oil, however one day my porrdge was a bit warm, so I almost threw up, but I had to close my nose and breath after each spoonful of that thing (I dont know what to call it) and swollow it fast, but resisting the temptation to stop eating the porridge was too good to ignore.  I heated the plate in the microwave, putting the time one notch higher than normal so it burns, but guess what, it didnt burn, dammit. So I sulked and swollowed the rest with total humiliation.

I am dreading tomorrow, as I have to take that spoon of coconut again. May God help me.  

Another interview by GULFNEWS



SMEs in UAE need more funding support
By Sarah Algethami                                                                  Published 17:52 April 28, 2013

Suad Al Halwachi, director at Education Zone, applied for a bank loan to grow her business but it was rejected. She then received her loan in 2010 from a loan shark within 10 days with a 21 to 22 per cent interest rate.
Suad’s loan was rejected even though she had her financial audited statements in order and a good track record, she said, adding that “business was doing well-hence the expansion”. When asked why her loan was rejected, she said that the bank classified her business as “high risk”.
Suad added that some SMEs she is aware of have had their loans rejected and have since left the country to set up their business elsewhere, after receiving loans from there.

An interview by GULFNEWS



UAE gender gap grows narrower
By Samia Badih
Published 00:00 December 17, 2009

Dubai: When Suad AlHalwachi was fed up with being an employee all her life, she decided to start her own business.
"I wanted my own time," she said. "I wanted to do what I like and travel when I want to."
But the Bahraini woman, who's been living in the UAE for 30 years, didn't know that starting her own business was not going to be easy, especially not for a woman in a world where businesses are predominantly run by men.
A woman with no credit history, Al Halwachi couldn't convince any bank to give her the capital to start her new business.
"Banks would not give me a loan because I'm a woman," she said. "So I basically had to start my business on a shoestring."
Al Halwachi reached out to friends and family for financial support and later started her own education consultancy firm which trains schools and provides career counselling to students who wish to pursue their higher education abroad.

Contacts lacking
Another challenge for Al Halwachi was not having the right contacts for her business. But eight years later, Al Halwachi says her firm, Education Zone, is doing well serving students in the Middle East and Africa.
She spends most of her time travelling to the US and Europe to learn more about the best universities first hand.
When asked whether she would apply for the Emirates Women's Award that is open to nationals and expatriates, Al Halwachi said that hearing from her students after graduation as they call her "Auntie Suad" is the best reward in the world.
Al Halwachi is one of thousands of Arab women contributing to the region's economies whose efforts go almost unnoticed. The Emirates Women's Award is aimed at recognising their talent.

A very intereting interview about higher education with me

This is self explanatory http://monitor.icef.com/2014/09/from-the-field-uae-education-sector-set-for-robust-growth/

Hope you will like the three videos.

Thank you ICEF Monitor

Men and us the women

We have many men in our lives, our brothers, our husbands, our sons, our sons in law, their brothers, our colleagues, our associates, our fellow educataors and many more; we like them all, and some of course we adore, they resemble the missing pieces of our lives jigsaw, in some moments in our life I feel that how can we live without men.  I miss my dad (PBUH) and I feel every day that he is around me , inspirer, protector, wisdom maker, care giver, money giver, well wisher and all.  However something is ringing in my ears, I cannot put my fingers on it, as its always there:  are men worried that we exist? do we threaten their existence? do they think that every word we say is against them? and do they really think that we are here to take them over?  to run their lives? or to rule them? 

Many women have ruled many countries, I want to know what goes into the minds of the men of those countries? do they feel bad that a woman is running the country? was there a survey done to show that all is well, horray, we have a woman leader, we are not worried!! or was that part of thing not taken seriously be men and they just accept it for its twopence worth?  when that woman leader says sometthing about the educatin, the health, the economy at large to the men of the parliament, or the governent, do they say in their minds: what the hell is she talking about? that its their job only and not hers? I wonder.

Ok, what brought this thing up? not sure, its just that I was wondering when we will be accepted as partners, and as people who say something because we mean it in a good way instead of just being blatantly mean?   when will the other half of this world realise that we were their mums, sisters, friends, wives, mother in laws, aunties, grandmums, and what not of the social tags that us the women carry.  Can we forget for a little while that we do share part of the wealth of this world and focus on the good stuff that the fellow women can also do to make the world a better place for everyone?

Same as men can do, women can too, to me there is no difference, and please the naivety must stop as we are not threatening, or domineering, we are just people that care and that make a difference.

Wednesday, 5 November 2014

Attending a K-12 conference is way better than a higher education one

Ok, this is my first time at #wise14, it stands for world innovation summit for education and it has everything to do with schools, teachers, learners, systems, creativity, raspberry jam, refugees, women, children and the list goes on.  I cannot describe how inspiring the whole thing is to me to see all of these  people (6000 of them) trying so hard to make the world a better place for everyone.  There is no discrimination here as everyone is fighting for better future for our kids, everyone is trying in his or her own way to help the world be a better place for all our generations to live in.

One thing to say here, there are more "her" than "his" as more women are working in this field than men, but of course men will get more exposure as they are out there, but in terms of initiatives women are more caring and more tuned to having safe learning communities for the children.  Everyone here has one objective, to build a future where we have schools that are run by the learners, where the classroom is facilitated by a teacher but the learning is done by the students for the students, that the classrooms are split in a way to cater for the different learning styles, that tests do not determine success, that technology is used to its limits (for us we know that there is no limit to technology) and much more objectives but last but not least that more resources are poured on education instead on military.

What I love about this  initiative is that the woman behind it is a Shaikha that really cares, when you hear her speak you can tell that she didn't create this as something to show off for, but for genuine belief that the world needs us to keep it intact, that the kids in this world are worth our time, and that we must work hard to make the world worth living.  This woman created the eduction in Qatar, and continues to inspire every person that hears about Qatar or lives in Qatar. I will call her the Queen of the educated world .  Shaikha Moza Bint Nasser, you are the woman.

I think if you haven't attended the conference, you must at least listen to the talks as they are streamed live for the benefit of everyone in this world who wants to make the world a better place for our generations.  Stay tuned, and here all about it from www.wise-qatar.org




Sunday, 2 November 2014

You have got to acquire a dentist as a friend

Since August I had this excruciating tooth ache that kept me from working and sleeping, I would wake up every three hours, and no matter how many pain killers I would take, its still there! it wouldn't go away. My dentist prescribed antibiotics, and I took three lots, in my second appointment she tried to drill but couldn't as the pain was of high altitude (not sure if we can say this word to describe tooth pain) so I thought I was fine with the third lot of antibiotic, but my dentist went on her annual leave, so the last few days were again in agony. 

After long two hours of four anesthetic injections, drilling, poking, cutting, slicing and trying every dental equipment that is on the face of earth, the tooth was broken into pieces, and then pulled out via that thing that looks like a pliers to take out the fragmented tooth.  Of course with all of this I was in screams like a little child and the other dentist was telling my dentist to be strong and pull even though it was hurting, also they took few X ray pictures to determine the location of the roots on that unwise wisdom tooth. 

I came back home and decided to go to bed, but the whole night I had blood seeping through and dirtying the pillow, I couldn't recite my prayers, so I had to pray silent.  The blood was all over my face when I woke up in the morning. 

The magic thing is, I don't have pain any more? that stupid pain is gone completely, of course there is a wound and some blood, but not the pain that made half my face numb! it is no longer there, and for that I thank my dentist.  She is one of my students that had gone to study at Otago university and when she graduated I made a bet with her that she will be similar to the other dentists that I know.  Now I know for a fact that she is a different breed, she is my breed.

Believe me guys, it makes such a difference when you know the dentist, take my advise and befriend one. the least he or she can do is not to pull the tooth out while you are shouting from pain.